What NOT To Say

Did you mean to say that?

We all get it.  I get it.

Sometimes you think you're interested and then you realize you're not.  

If you don't have the courage to say,  "I'm not into you" or "Get out my face " or the customary "It's me not you" or to simply disappear never to be seen or heard from again then please come up with a good excuse or use somebody else's. Steal from the best.  For example use one of Oprah's phrases.



You could say, "I'm out here living my best life and you don't fit into it."  You know- something, anything, just don't say or email this:

HI Xxxxxx,

I'm sorry that I'm only now reaching out to you.  I got a little distracted again by life - I seriously injured my knee this week, and am probably out for the count with surgery, rehab, etc.  I was so excited to play sports after my broken ankle, I went out and bought me a new pair of athletic shoes and signed up for volleyball, only to mess up the knee on my other leg!  I probably won't have the energy to expend on other parts of life right now, so, while I had fun meeting you and getting to know you a bit I have to focus on just getting myself healthy.  I won't have the wherewithal to meet up for the next while.  I hope you can understand.

All the best,

Xxxxxx

Everything that man wrote could be true but ummmmm... if it is I still need him to say something else.  I need him to have done better.  He basically said (as one friend put it), "I hurt my knee so I can't come out and play anymore."  That's literally unbelievable and funny or as one friend put it, "NEXT."

I don't know where else to go with this... I think that's all I have to say...

I do hope that man gets healthy.  A bad knee sucks plus everyone should have mobility to live their best life!